Alexa Heckmann

supporting families 

Our direct cremation service offers families an empowering and affordable alternative to industry-standard funeral services.

Our Point of Difference

Former Sydney Dance Company dancer turned funeral director Alexa Heckmann launched Private Cremation Services, an independent Australian funeral provider committed to improving the funeral industry with affordable direct cremations servicing NSW and ACT for families seeking an alternative to traditional funerals.

Over her decade-long career in the funeral sector, Alexa, saw that families were increasingly looking to commemorate in different, unstructured ways – particularly after COVID – and the funeral industry was not changing to meet those needs.

“I felt that the sector had become obsessed with itself: the shiny hearses, the expensive coffins, the funeral directors parading about in their suits with inflexible judgements about what a funeral ‘should’ be. Microcosms within communities are searching for alternatives within the structure of the funerals they are familiar with. There is a place for traditional practices, but there is also capacity for change and growth within the structure of the standard portfolio we have historically offered families.” Alexa says.

Founded on Alexa’s commitment to empathy, transparency and integrity, Private Cremation Services offers modestly priced direct cremations centered on the person, not a business model. The direct cremation service includes transfers, paperwork, cremation and return of ashes, as well as a 24/7 support line, so families can focus on how to say goodbye their way.

Alexa says, “We are not a faceless corporation driven by investor expectations. I want families to feel deeply cared for and listened to, not push a narrative on them driven by profit.”

Alexa’s career change from professional classical ballet dancer to funeral director was a calling she felt compelled to answer, even when those around her questioned her choice. But after being entrusted with directing the farewell of a friend and dance colleague only one year into her new career, Alexa knew she had found her life’s work.

“For so many dancers,” Alexa says, “the transition to another career is generally met with trepidation and disappointment. We live in a society that considers death to be threatening and strange, and it may have looked like I was turning my back on an established and respectable career. But it was clear to me that it was the right decision. I have had the opportunity to apply my unique imprint to an industry which, at times, I found stuck in its antiquated traditions.”

With the launch of Private Cremation Services, Alexa remains dedicated to challenging the funeral industry to be the best it can be, while empowering and supporting people to have better experiences of funerals.

“I believe in a strong focus on the customer’s experience and a brand marketed not by a two-dimensional image but by a sense of undeniable assurance bound to who I am and what I stand for.”

What we offer

  • Collection of your loved one from their place of passing

  • Transfer of your loved one into our care

  • Provide dignified mortuary care

  • Conduct a direct cremation service

  • Registration of the death with Births, Deaths and Marriages

  • Order the official death certificate

  • Return of your loved one’s ashes to your family

    We also offer a range of optional services;

  • Private viewing

  • Overseas repatriation service

  • Memorial service

  • Intimate funeral service

  • Memorial urns

  • Keepsake jewellery

  • Scattering of your loved one’s ashes

Why Choose Us?

There are many reasons why you should choose Private Cremation Services for your direct cremation needs.

Here are just a few reasons…

  • We are an independently-owned and operated business with over a decade of experience in the funeral industry, not a faceless corporation driven by investor expectation, but a company committed to providing our families with the highest level of care.

  • We offer a wide range of optional services to choose from, so you can create a direct cremation service that is tailored to your needs so that the service is right for your family.

  • We are affordable and transparent with our pricing without the surprise not hidden additional fees.

  • We are available 24/7 to answer your questions and provide support at a time convenient for you.

  • We offer a personalised service with a dedicated funeral director for your family.

FAQs

What is a direct cremation?

A direct cremation, also known as a private cremation or no service, no attendance funeral service is a type of cremation service that is performed without a formal funeral ceremony. This means that family and friends of the deceased are not present when the cremation is being conducted.

Why would someone choose a private cremation or direct cremation service?

There are many reasons why someone might choose a private cremation or direct cremation service. Some people prefer to say goodbye to their loved one in a more private setting, or wish to conduct a memorial service in a venue that holds more meaning for their loved one. Others may have financial constraints or may simply not want a traditional funeral service as they are non religious.

What are the benefits of choosing a direct cremation?

There are many benefits to choosing a direct cremation. Direct cremations are typically more affordable than traditional funerals. They are also more flexible, as the family can choose the date and time of the cremation. Additionally, direct cremations can be more personalised, as the family can choose to conduct a memorial service in a venue that holds more meaning to their loved one and includes special elements in the service.

How do I arrange a direct cremation?

To arrange a direct cremation, you will need to contact a direct cremation service funeral provider. The funeral director will be able to answer all your questions and help you plan the service that’s right for you and your family.

What happens after the direct cremation service?

After the cremation, the loved one’s ashes will be returned to the family. The family can then choose to keep the ashes, memorialise them, scatter, or bury them. This decision can be made at a time the family are ready rather than being pressured by time constraint of a traditional funeral.